Is my ex really in love or is it lust?
A month and a half ago I found out the girl I was with was talking to someone else. At this time My ex and I have not talked for 1 week and a half, for about a month I fought for her like no other, tried everything to get her back. I love her to death we were together for 5 years. She left me for another man and says she is in love with him, it is all over facebook and she is extremely public about it. She even tattooed his name on her wrist. She thinks the guy is perfect, she is obessesed with him after their short time together. The guy is a known bad boy and player. He has a really bad rep. I am the exact opposite. She has turned into another person she know is always at bars getting drunk and doing wild things, she is no longer the person I knew. Its like she died and came back as someone else. To the point, I have not talked to her in 6 days after we agreed to not talk anymore. she made her choice of being with him and she has to live with it. She made a call out of the blue and left a voicvoice mail she sounded like she may have been drunk. She said she thinks about me all the time, cares about me, , that she still loves me, she knows I am trying to be strong, I am a great person, she wants whats best for me, but she should not have called and not to call back because it will cause drama. Just basically confusing me when I was getting stronger. WHY DID SHE CALL?? WHAT WAS HER MOTIVATION TO DO THIS AND CONFUSE ME EVEN MORE? I was getting stronger and its like I take steps back. Is she really is love, whats her deal?
Answer on Is my ex really in love or is it lust?
I bet it's lust since it has been a very short time. Keep your head held high and try to keep on being strong, she WILL see it was a huge mistake to do what she did and it will hurt her in the end. I'm sorry you had to go through this as i did the same thing to a good man years ago and regretted it severely. It was a stupid choice and i paid dearly for it later on.
